When Should I Teach My Child to Read...or other school subjects?

When is my child old enough to learn to read? When should I start teaching reading? These are questions that a lot of parents ask, not just homeschoolers. There are a lot of experts who have developed several well published theories for these questions.

The real answer is your child is ready to learn to read when you are ready to invest the time and effort into teaching them. Your personal educational philosophy will largely influence your readiness checklist.

The early bird philosophy that I know the most about was developed by Glen Doman the founder of The Institute for Human Achievement and Potential. Doman champions teaching reading to children as young as five months of age.

The better late then early philosophy proposed by Dr. Raymond Moore is well known in most homeschool circles. Dr. Moore argues that a child develops the skills needed to learn to read over time and trying to force a child to learn to read too early will be counterproductive. A child, especially boys, who are not reading at the age of ten, eleven or twelve, will grow into this ability Dr. More argues.

So who is right? They both are! Children have successfully learned to read and love it regardless of which theory their parents subscribed to. The choice is yours.

Doman compares learning to read with learning to speak. If we only whispered to our babies or even refused to speak in front of them they would never learn to talk. But by speaking regularly, singing, questioning, and engaging our infants they learn to speak. By the age of three most children have functionally learned a whole language. Reading is just learning a language with your eyes rather then with your ears. Infants of deaf parents will learn sign language as easily as infants of hearing parents learn speech.

So why don't all children learn to read? The problem is their eye development. Most children do not achieve 20/20 vision before five years of age. Most print is written too small for children to see, it is like whispers in the background. There but unimportant. Doman had parents make cards with words large enough for the infants to actually see.

Meg was five months old when I heard about Doman's philosophies. It went against every thing that I had learned in my college education classes. When I discussed his philosophies with my mother, she surprised me by pulling his book off of her shelf. I devoured it. Then I tried it. I was sure that it would not work, but I figured it couldn't hurt. To my surprise is did work. Meg was reading level 2-3 beginner books independently before her second birthday. She read The Wizard of Oz before she was five. She went to kindergarten, her teacher told me to homeschool her.

Doman forced me to reevaluate the predominate educational philoshies that I was exposed to. Homeschooling has allowed me to be exposed to many more. The more I have learned the more I see that there is value in most educational philosophies. Parents must choose what is right for their family and their children. The supporters of these different ideologies often seem almost religious in their zeal that their way is the right way. It makes me wonder if like religion, the state is better staying out of education.

In his book Better Late then Early Dr. Raymond Moore sites several scientific studies that show that young children are developmentally not ready for formal schooling. He argues that children are best kept in a home environment. "Wait 'til Eight" has become a slogan in many homeschool circles.

With the number of children being diagnosed with learning disabilities at earlier and earlier ages, many site More's book as an explanation for why these youngsters are getting labeled.

While I was not introduced to Dr. Moore's book until after all of my children were reading I feel a personal sense of gratitude for his homeschool work in general. Dr. Moore was very influential in Washington State when our homeschool law was passed. He came and testified on behalf of the homeschooling community. For that, and the rights I have to homeschool, I will always be thankful.

Dr. Moore and Glen Doman may have had very different views on when a child should begin to learn to read. But they both argued that the home was the best place for a child to learn. They both saw homeschooling as THE ANSWER to our nations educational dilemmas.

Question About 100 Easy Lessons

I received the following message from one of my regular readers and I thought that I would share my answer just in case anyone else was interested.

Mrs. March,

I was reading your post about your favorite book on teaching children to read. I am currently trying to teach my youngest, B., how to read. I've used Bob Jones curriculum in the past, and I really don't want to invest in them anymore, since they sort of put you in a box, which I find is quite overwhelming. Can you tell me what makes it so fun to use? About how much time a day do you put into it? Is there any prep work you have to do? All the input you have on this would be most helpful.

A.

I prefer curriculum that requires little to no prep work! Homeschool parents need to maximize their time curriculum that requires a lot of time gathering supplies rarely gets my endorsement. Teach Your Child to Read in 100 Easy Lessons will require you to spend about 20 minutes reading the "How to Use This Book" at the beginning. From that point on you pick up the book sit with your child nearby (the Miss Marches always sat on my lap) and proceed through the lesson. Each lesson takes about fifteen minutes to finish. After completing the book your child will be able to read level 2-3 beginning reader books. You can purchase your own or make the most of the library's supply.

At this point letting your child have access to lots of books they feel comfortable reading and are interested in will develop their confidence that they ARE readers. Over time gently introduce them to longer and more difficult books. Continue to spend time reading together. Even when you have a child who can read college level books you should still enjoy family time reading together.

I can't say that Teach Your Child to Read in 100 Easy Lessons is exactly fun. Some of the girls loved it and did not need to be rewarded for their hard work. But for some of my girls knowing that they could spend 15 minutes on http://www.starfall.com/ after they finished a lesson was just the encouragement they needed. Starfall is a free online reading website. It reinforces the lessons your child is learning in 100 Easy Lessons.

I hope this helps. Thank you for taking the time to write me with your questions.

Teach Your Child to Read in 100 Easy Lessons

Amy has finished using 100 Easy lessons! At first, I was just thrilled that we were done. Then it hit me. I have had three different copies of this book. This book has been a staple of some one's curriculum for the last four years!

I wish that I had take a picture of my last copy before I threw it away. The front cover was gone, as was the back. There were several stickers, notes, and hand drawn pictures through out the pages.

My first copy of this book has become a world traveler. When visiting Wycliffe's sister program Summer Institute of Linguistics, I had the pleasure of getting to meet several Wycliffe missionary families. Education of their children was a topic I could actively participate in. It was a great pleasure for me to be able to provide information on homeschool curriculum. In the end I gave my copy of this book to a family who is serving the Lord in Thailand.

My second copy sprouted legs and walked off. I'm not sure where. I probably let someone borrow it and forgot who I loaned it to. If it was you, keep it, or pass it on to another family.

My third copy has traveled to Victoria, Yellowstone, and many place between. It has been stepped on, dropped, slept on and read. If it was the velveteen rabbit it would be very close to being real!

If you are looking for a phonics based program to teach your children to read I would give this book five stars! After finishing a lesson I let the Miss Marches enjoy http://www.starfall.com/

Now that all of the March girls are literate, what shall we conquer next?